He pushed me
down on the couch on my back and slowed me down. I needed to slow down; I was
trying to get her top off like I was stealing it. She climbed on top of me and
put her forefinger over my mouth as to silence anything I was about to say.
said in a mere whisper, "Slow down big boy - you will get everything on
the menu but let's start with a little appetizer". She was right - I went
into overdrive like I was driving a Lamborghini, hard and fast. She was so
beautiful how could I resist?
I did not have to resist because she wanted me to
have everything on the menu - she just wanted me to "play with my
food" first for a while. If humans were car engines then the females would
have one prerequisite: HEAT IT UP FIRST. Men can go from 0-60 in under 10
seconds but the female engine needs to be warmed up and lubricated before they
will run the big race. Granted some females love a good quickie sometimes but
when it comes to real sex and real love-making the game any woman wants to play
(Capital letters to be read with a husky voice)
FOREPLAY is most
definitely the bricks and mortar of a good lover. YEAH. A good lover is not measured
in penis length or bra size. Good lovers do not posses magic powers or have
hypnotic potions that create this aura about their sexual prowess. A good lover
is about GIVING AND SATISFYING their partner through SEDUCTION and unselfish
Nothing exemplifies this more than foreplay. It is the game before
the game. When two people get together for intense sexual pleasure they both
have an agenda and fantasies on their mind. Even partners we have had sex with
in the past can create new fantasies and desires. Experimenting is not only fun
for you but your partner as well. Surprise the person you have been sleeping
with by giving them a full body massage followed by a "snow job".
you want a great example of foreplay - lay your partner down on their back and
you go up and down their body with your mouth, never touching the naughty bits
but everything else. Use your warm mouth to sip and suck and bite and tease
their erogenous zones and lick them behind the ears or bite the top of their
shoulders - literally devour them with your gregarious mouth. You don't have to
be a pro to "touch" someone. Use your hands, forearms, chest,
elbows and even your chin to get into your partner's muscles and deep tissue.
This massage and touch will relax and stimulate your partner at the same time -
remember the camera is rolling.
After the massage, use SOFT strokes and touch
to stimulate your partner. Roll your finger tips across their nipples and
behind their ears as you kiss them and tease them with your tongue. When your
partner gets impatient and aggressive during the foreplay it means you are
doing something right. I know I am turned as I write this.
When you can't
physically take it anymore - you must! You must endure the taunting and teasing
of your senses because they must also endure you and your warm tongue as you
bring them to get chills across their thighs. Foreplay is as much of an art
form as it is a "necessity". Foreplay can include, toys,
vegetables, cloths, tools, ties and even food.
If you want to watch a person
spontaneously combust then tease them for an hour straight before you take care
of business. Don't be afraid to experiment with sex toys and oils because both
can enhance sexual pleasure considerably for both parties. Like a machine
everyone needs to stay nice and lubricated.
OH YEAH...When she orgasms, tell her "Good girl...you did it"
and make her take ownership over it. Her simply believing that she can orgasm
will dramatically improve her chances of achieving orgasm the next time.